The Integrated Man

February 16, 2009

Men Who Get Women

Filed under: Identity,Life,Sex and Love — Integrated Man @ 2:44 pm

February 12, 2009


by Henry Makow Ph.D.

  Like a Zen Koan, men who get women don’t need them and don’t want them. They aren’t pretending. They don’t want them and they don’t need them. 

Test this formula in reverse. Are women attracted to men who adore them? Temporarily maybe. But ultimately, women don’t want to be idealized. They want to be seen and loved for whom they really are.

My wisdom has come too late to help me. In spite of being bright and relatively successful, I squandered my romantic life as poster boy for needy. I was programmed by the mass media and education to regard sex and love, especially sex, as the prerequisite for my personal development. I was taught that these were the highest experiences life had to offer. In other words, I was inducted into an occult secular religion which required …. a woman.


Popular occulture programmed me for failure. It taught me to idealize attractive women, to worship the “goddess” within, to “need” them to validate me. At the same time, women were programmed to think they were more unique and important than they really were. In heterosexuality, women empower their husbands by exchanging their worldly power for his power expressed as love. (See my book “Cruel Hoax.”) But, without their knowledge, women were retrained to seek power instead and emasculate men.

Attractive women were rarely portrayed in a negative light in movies or TV. On the contrary, the rule was sex appeal = moral superiority. If an unattractive person was cast, the chances were s/he was a bad guy. (All of this is still true.) No wonder I pursued chimeras. No wonder my marriages were built on delusions.

Let’s see this in a larger context: the modern world is not dedicated to realizing the intentions of the mysterious Force that created the universe.  It is not based on discerning the inherent natural and moral laws that ensure our healthy development. Rather modern society is dedicated to fulfilling the ambition and greed of a tiny cabal of psychopaths. It is based on using deception and hype to cheat man and God. A highly organized Satanic power, the Illuminati, want to suppress any notions of universal Purpose and Design. They want to demoralize and degrade the human race in order to colonize us. They are behind all Western imperialism, and now, with the NWO,  imperialism is coming home.

They use sex to distract people from seeing their activity. Sex is a reproductive function. Nature gave it some charm and urgency to make sure it happened.  Instead of a short mating and procreating stage, the Illuminati have turned sex into a lifelong obsession. This is designed to make us stupid. Have you seen the commercials for erectile dysfunction? These drugs are meant to be used by everyone. The people in the commercials have dropped out or have lost control of their lives. They are so busy copulating that they’ve burned the turkey, flooded the house and neglected their dog, who needs to pee. (Here it is.)

Judging from MTV, the younger generation, is totally obsessed with short term sexual encounters. “I’m attracted to you.” “I don’t know what I want.” One woman has bedded 200 men she met on the net. She’ll never be able to commit to one man. The younger generation has been reduced to the level of fruit flies, barely able to think.

Most sexual perversion stems from making sex an end in itself separate from procreation, love and marriage. The trend toward promiscuity and the breakdown of the family unit, portrayed as “progress” was planned by the Illuminati decades ago. In Aldous Huxley’s novel Brave New World  (1932) monogamy is a selfish perversion. Bonding is a crime. The words “mother” and “father” are obscenities. Life begins on an assembly line that starts with the fertilization of conscripted eggs. Babies are brainwashed for 12 years, by endless repetition of state-approved axioms. This is the world we are entering as the Illuminati take away our toys but leave us our pills, Viagra-Prozac-Soma. We are becoming zombies with six-hour erections.


“So long as the love, even the smallest, of man toward woman is not destroyed, so long is his mind in bondage as the calf that drinks milk is to his mother.” -Buddha

When I was young and full of religious zeal, I considered becoming a monk. I decided against it because I would be like a hamburger cooked on only one side. As long as I craved feminine love and sex, I wasn’t ready. But now I’m 59, happily married after three unsuccessful marriages. Having put in countless hours of lovemaking and studying the female and her form, I can say with confidence that sex and romance are mostly a matter of hormones. Men don’t need women to fulfill themselves spiritually. They only need them to realize they don’t need them.

Love for me is the feeling that grows over time when a man and woman can trust each other for companionship, understanding and support. The other kind of love is worship, and that is reserved for God alone.

Fulfillment for a man comes from discovering what he was born to do, and doing it. God has given every man a mission. A man becomes a man when he finally believes in himself, and doesn’t  put any man or woman above him. These men don’t need women, except to help them fulfill their mission. They are the real men real women want. 

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